Tarnue Ayala Seekpeh
NEVER TOO LATE!
My name is Tarnue Ayala Seekpeh; akas, TeeJay. Borne on WAS I of December 9. I of'm a Liberian WAS Borne and in the northern part of Liberia, of Lofa County. I Graduated with a Bachelor Degree, in Business Administration , at the AME Zion University, Liberia. I also obtained Associate Degree in Sociology and Psychology at AME Zion University, Liberia.
I'm presently working at Petraplus, as a Human Development Specialist / Human Resource Manager / Teacher. I've been involved in series of programs. Such as: Inter-Cultural programs. I have been involved with Volunteer Programs with many Organizations, particularly with the Saint Petersburg Red Cross. I've organized some programs with Orphanage Homes. I've worked with kids who parents is alcoholic, Traumatized kids and kids with abusive parents.
Contact: +79112937727; +231886219931
Location: Saint Petersburg, Russia; Lakpazee Airfield, old Road, 1000 Monrovia, Liberia 10.
Life has knocked me down a few times. It has shown me things I never wanted to see. I experienced sadness & failures. But one thing for sure; I always get up even though it has been full of pain & hurt. I look back with a smile because I know that is what made me who I am today .... stronger & a better person.
Someday, you'll forget the hurt, the reason you cried and who caused you pain. Sometimes you have to let things go, so that, there's room for better things to come into your life. You will finally realize that the secret of being free is not revenge, but letting things unfold in their own way and own time. After all, what matters is not the first, but the last chapter of your life which shows how well you ran the race. So smile, laugh, forgive, believe and love all over again ...
I learned the hard way that I can not always count on others to respect my feelings, even if I respect theirs. Being a good person does not guarantee that others will be good people too. You only have control over yourself and how you chose to be as a person. As for others, you can only choose to accept them or walk away.
But first, you need to know that, Insecurity cause you to worry, why worry Brings distractions, and distractions gives way to confusions; confusion, on the Other Hand, lead to Instability, When you are not stable It leads you to do Things you'll regret. So think twice before making decisions, because, at the end of the day, the choice is yours to make. So, be ready to hold yourself responsible or accountable for whatever result tha is going tot come.
One thing I know for sure is that, never you ignore someone who loves you and care for you, because, if you do, you will wake up counting the skies while the moon has already set.
The goal of the NEVERTOOLATE Capacity Building strategy is to strengthen empower, educate, teach, nurture, protect, provide, enable, help the youth to help themselves to become who they always wanted to become. To help develop their skills, knowledge, structures and ways of working that make an organization more effective, building on existing strengths and addressing gaps and weaknesses. We empower them to have Organizational skills. To help them take full responsibility of themselves and their Community, or to become an influential Leaders.
The purpose of the strategy is to increase the capacity of NEVERTOOLATE staff and to enable communities to increase their capacity to:
Design, implement and manage effective projects in empowering the youth around world;
Access and use knowledge and skills;
Provide and nurture leadership;
Build awareness and support for community care as a development strategy in the internal and external environments in which we’re going to operate.
The aim of this empowerment is to establish a wide-based community movement which encourages the positive involvement of young people in solving issues which affect them,treating them as resources,not as problems.
In order to transform their communities, we focus on three main areas:
To enable the youth explore and understand the social meaning and impact of the youth, and to distinguish between being passive and actively involve means.. to also understand the importance of having a InterCultural dialogue.
Knowledge and Skills: The NEVERTOOLATE access and knowledge will be enhanced by:
- Workshop on development themes and on different areas of weaknesses, and to build capacity where it needed.
Leadership: NEVERTOOLATE staff to partners, communities and nurture leadership that will be enhanced by collective visioning and planning on the main development themes, skill development and making links to other efforts to strengthen cooperation and collaboration among the different leaders in different communities in Liberia
This program is a non Profitable Organization. It’s sole aim to help people rediscover themselves and make them believe that, it’s never too late to reach their goals. We are here to help or tell people that, it’s never too late to be happy or to bring their dreams to reality. We all have had some ups and down, but it left with you, if you still want to live in the past. Your happiness starts with you. We are a team that can help in any situations. Whenever you have a question, don’t hesitate to contact us or send us email.
I have decided to create a collaborative and co-operative atmosphere among the different nationals living and staying in Russia and beyond. My intentions is solely intended to help brighten the minds of the youth and others who have no knowledge whatsoever, when it comes to other Countries cultures. So our hope is to create hope where there seems hopelessness. This program is to teach youth or even older people to be more active in knowing about how other people lives, what they eat, their stable food or dishes, their attire, their dances, the kind of music and so forth. I also want to help and empower people to make their environment a better place to live.
We want to help them believe that, that there's always light after darkness. To help people construct their pessimistic minds to become more optimistic. I want to help them have different views of who they are in better prospective. To help people develop their skills in every level. We are organization willing to help all humanity, regardless of your ethnicity, your religious background, or even your tribal background as well, we are encouraging, Christians, Muslim communities, and even Organization, who are also involved in this same project, to be a part of us in helping those kids who needs help.
HAPPINESS: is the state of well-being characterized by emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy.
But for me, Happiness is being appreciative of what you have and who you are at that given time.
Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, or worn. It is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace & gratitude.
People or things enter your life consistently. Each is a gift. It is up to you to appreciate what is, & to explore what is not. Through that you gain experience. Positive last a lifetime & negative teaches you.
You know what is best for you. You know what is needed. You know what you have to do. You know what is right to do! If it was easy, we'd all be successful....at everything in life. You have to put forth mental & physical energy towards doing the RIGHT thing rather than just quickly taking the easy route to get through the day. It will move you forward and you will feel great in the end.
IT IS OUR PERCEPTION THAT MAKES THE DIFFERENCE IN THE WAY WE FEELS.
Don't ever let anyone break your soul. You have to stand on your own two feet & fight. There are those who would do anything to see you fail. Never give them the satisfaction. Hold your head up high, put a smile on your face & stand your ground.
In order also to stay happy, is by loving people of all kinds, be it, their cultures, colors, small, big, slim, etc. you have to love them, respect their views.
In order to stay on the path of Happiness, you must believe in yourself, that, you can be what you always wanted to be. Although, there will always be obstacles, but, if you are determine you will overcome those obstacles.
Let me tell you a little story of myself. When I was seven years old, I always wanted to help poor people. I just wanted to be a Humanitarian worker. That was my planned. But, my parents were so poor that I couldn’t go to good school at that time. I went to government school.
At that time, my brother as well, wanted to be an architect. We had different vision about life. But, we didn’t mind. We appreciated what we had at that time. We also appreciated who we were at that time.
So, later on along the way I lost my mother. She was the husband in the house, because my father was jobless. She was a business woman. So when she passed away, I started to find a job in a factory. I used to work from 20:00 to 5:00am, and go home take shower and prepared for school. I did that until I completed secondary school. So, after my completion, I decided to travel to Nigeria to go University. But, I didn’t have enough money for University. I was still focus on what I wanted to become.
So, in order to raise money, I have to wash people clothes, with hand, not machine, just to get money to send myself to school.
If you are trapped between your feelings and what other people think of you, you need to always go for whatever makes you happy. Except, you want everybody to be happy, while you stay unhappy.
I have always stuck to my planned, despite people have discouraged me. Friends told me, it’s impossible for you to travel to do what you want to do. Is good to listen to people but the final decision is you to make, because, is all about you not them. It”s your future and you have to take full responsibility of the outcome. So you have to make wise decisions.
Try to study yourself, what you like most and what can keep you smiling whenever you feel sad. There are more to happiness than money or material things. Sometimes happiness is doing something out of your comfort zone.
Happiness is choice. Happiness is should be for everyone to have. In order to make your dream a reality, you have to be careful as to whom you follow. If you follow friends that are bad, you will never fulfill your dream. It is always good to follow friends that are also having an ambition for life.
We have inner or powers or drives that allow us to do things that seem impossible in our physical eyes. But with determination, dedication, commitment, tolerance and respect, you can do anything.
Five simple rules for Happiness:
1) Free your heart from hatred
2) Free your mind from worries
3) Live simple
4) Give more
5) Expect less.
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